Be Positive for joining Defense forces...the dream to live...
Already thought of joining Indian defense services? Alas... You are on the right path. Indian defense is one of the best services one could opt for being in India. It is a place where you could live for your country and think of serving and protecting its rights. Being surrounded by neighbors who do not tend to have good relations with our country it’s the need of time. Every youth want to contribute to its motherland but the real right is bestowed to the defense personnel’s only. They are the real heroes and have the power to do so. If you want to be one, identify the need of service for motherland in your heart and brain and then move ahead. SSB a wonderful 5 day stint and the gateway to be an officer with Indian defense requires a synchronization between your body, heart and mind. Whatever you think with your mind should without any conflict be agreed upon by your heart and should be reflected in your action with the help of your body.
This synchronization helps in removing the duality
of thought and action becomes result oriented. You never turn back to your
decision for validation. Remember, an officer never has another chance to think
whether the decision he has taken is right or wrong. The protection of
motherland never gives another chance to think what’s next? If these three function together you are the
right one to move ahead. SSB clearly judges you as a person and recommends you
only if you have sufficient OLQ’s. The parameters are stringent and are not
changed for anyone. Popularity of defense is growing not because it pays you
high but it’s the only place in India where no reservation applies. All are
equally treated here and judged on tough parameters before clearing.
The mantra
for success is the positivism one carries in life. You are tested to look how
positive one can be in adverse situations. Positivism changes way of thinking
and can convert an adverse situation into a good one. This is a tested formula
and yes it has worked for years for the defense personnel’s in acquiring the
right talent. The officers that get recommended not only have a different
approach to look at situations but are daring enough to think differently than
the so called “civilians”. You should have a positive thought process and it
should be developed since the inception. Be happy in every situation you face.
The thought process of positivism is something that takes time to build in and
it cannot be developed immediately when you get a SSB call. This would
definitely be a help in psychology section and would be reflected in whatever
you answer in PI. So get ready..... Built in positivism.... time is flowing
off....
In next article I would be
concentrating more on the hidden mantras to get success in SSB. This article
tries to tell the advantage of being positive so be one. Still If you have any confusion
or feel to take individual assessment of personality for OLQ’s or prepare from
your place itself through one to one interaction through my mentoring /
counselling program drop me a mail at jayendrapsingh@gmail.com
or add me on Fb and drop in a message. Its always a pleasure to help aspirants
and clear their doubts which are often myths that they hear from different
resources, but I can suggest if you get the right guidance at the right time to
resolve queries, everyone has the capability to make into defense forces. Just
try it once.
About the Author : Jayendra is pursuing MBA from IIM Ranchi and is a die
heart counsellor, advisor and mentor for defence aspirants. He was
recommended in the first attempt for Indian navy UES entry and is willing to
help aspirants to make use of his experience in this field.
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