Typical and generally asked GD/Lecturette Topic in SSB ~ Who is responsible for EVE Teasing?
Guys we all are living in India and Indian Girls have to face a lots of Problems Eve Teasing is one of them, it is very common problem here in India and this is considered as a typical topic for Group Discussion and for Lecturette too, so dont ignore it give it a deep study and i am sure that you will be tackle it easily in you Group Discussion/Lecturette Section.
- Western Culture
- Lack of Values in Society
- Women Themselves
INTRODUCTION
Women have been subjected to various types of crime for
centuries. One type of minor crime which has remained constant is eve-teasing.
All men indulge in this crime in some form or the other. “the degree or nature
may vary. Today this crime has grown to alarming proportion and every families
is worried about their grown up girls. They give her long list of Do’s and
Dont’s when she leaves home. They keep their finger crossed till she gets
back-how stressful for the family.
Western culture
“NO WOMEN NO CRY”
The western culture has always attracted the masses of our
country. However we should not ape a culture blindly. In fact we must adopt the
good qualities of that culture. Imagine a woman provocatively dressed in a low
cut western dress sitting in a bar, drinking and behaving in a loud manner.
What should we expect? Obviously male attention. There is no harm in wearing
these dresses or drinking, But one must know where to draw a line. A woman must
follow respectable norms. She should be accompanied by a male friend and drink
within her limits. Bulk of the latest movies made in our country are generating
a lot of western influence, “Neha Dhupia” doing Bo Derek scene in Qayamat or
Akshay kumar romancing Priyanka Chopra and Lara Dutta in skimpy dress leave the
boys confused. If they happen to see such a woman in real life they feel she is
game and he is Akshay Kumar. The concept of dating is also picking up in our society.
If a boy and a girl want to meet they should meet at a respectable place,
bushes in park is no place to meet. In western society it may be OK but in
India, it is not viewed positively.
Lack of Values in society
Men
look upon women as second rate citizen and have been misbehaving with women from
time immemorial. However the values in our society have been degrading very
rapidly. What happens when we read news of a Retd. IPS officer misbehaving with
a young lady or a idle aged an stopping his car next to a young girl and
whispering “Chaltikya”, or boys fonding girls in DTC bushes packed to capacity?
I feel the solution rest in correcting the society in an exemplary manner. In
that the culprit should not be sent to the jail. In fact his other/sister/wife
should be called to the police station and apprised to their wards’ deeds. I am
sure it will act as a bigger deterrent than going to jail. If a person repeats
such an act his photograph should be published in the newspaper and he could
also be shown on T.V. however to present women from misusing such rules, clear
evidence should be made available. The parents, school and college must instill
good values in our younger generation. So that we regard the women folk with
respect. To set some decorum in our society we can have some senior citizen
with special power patrolling the cities, who can award punishment to eve
teasers on the spot.
Women themselves
“GOOD GIRLS GO TO HEAVEN BAD GIRLS GO EVERY WHERE”
Women often fall prey to eve-teaser for their own fault.
Today nobody can say who will misbehave with a woman, when and where, hence the
saying “precaution is better than Cure” I have seen any women enjoying chatting
with en on the net. If it is within limits, it is fine. But the moment the man
tries to get intimate she must go offline. Whenever they apply for a job, they
must scrutinize the credentials of the company and the job requirement,
including timings. They should not take lift from strangers and ensure proper
transportation to and fro from place of work or study. The govt. agencies can
also help by increasing special buses for women and asking ore seats available
for the in buses. The women often ignore the culprits as they fear that, they
may be physically hared or their parents would get a bad name. this act
actually encourages the eve-teaser. The best way is to immediately start
shouting, run towards a crowd and report the matter to the nearest police post.
Also, they must be capable of handling such situations on their own. They
should be trained in self-defence. As responsible citizen it is our duty to
immediately come forward and help any woman in distress.
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